I am considering showing up at his school so that I can get him to tell why he ghosted me for 3 weeks. It won't be weird - he is the executive in a bible study at school so if show up at the bible study I will probably run into him. I don't even know if he is alive right now! I am worried he is mentally retarded from health problems or dead in a cardiac arrest or suicide attempt. I want to know if he is okay and why he hasn't been responding.
He disappeared on me for 2.5 weeks in May too and then resurfaced to tell me about his problems. He told me his health problems were too personal to discuss in an e-mail or online conversation so he wanted to wait until we were face to face to tell me what was going on which was why I had to wait almost 3 weeks to figure out what was wrong with him.