Then the next guy, i had sent him a message, he hadn’t replied in hours but I had noticed he’d been online a few times but still not opened it. So then when he did message, I ignored him. He asked me why, and I said there is no point speaking if I feel like I’m being ignored. Then he said he was at work, and that I also take a long time to respond as well, but that he doesn’t get mad when I do it, and then he said he can’t be bothered with me anymore.
I know I’m going about things the wrong way with people, and it pushes them away. But I’m just really insecure because of past experiences with men, and I assume that they just want 1 thing and are talking to other girls, or that they get bored so start ignoring me.
How can I get past being like this?