message 2 - I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship too) - I really admire your free independent spirit and your fun personality and you always put a smile on my face whenever we hang out and I really like you. I wanted to ask if you think we could ever develop into anything more than friends? You’ve been a great friend to me and i was afraid of losing our friendship if I told you this as that's the last thing I want so if the answer is no then I really hope we can still be friends. Whatever happens, I will always respect your boundaries.
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Neither, something like this may be better if said in person. Sending messages is the coward's way out and they/you can't read body language or hear the sincerity of your voice. Sometimes what you say first is more honest than what you say when you rehash it several times before you reply to a message, in my opinion.