Are guys secretly serious when they joke about dating you?

I can never take this guy in particular seriously.. he's got a really playful and flirty personality with everyone so I never believe nearly half the shit he says. But then I go home and lay awake at night wondering "what if he isn't joking?" I believe him when he calls me cute or attractive, but all the other stuff? Who really knows..

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Most Helpful Guy

  • he says it jokingly as a defense mechanism for himself in case you reject him. He is 100% serious good luck

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  • sometimes theyre joking, other time theyre not, its hard to tell... best thing to do is after he says something like that is say "youre joking, right?" and see how he acts
    or just ask him if he's joking when he flirts with you

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  • They never joke about that. It's their way of covering up their nervousness

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  • Depends 🤷‍♂️

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