Don’t be modest
Mine would have to be my warm innocent personality 😇 I’m also sweet and loving.
Most Helpful Guys
I say what I mean and mean what I say. I don't mince words or play games. I workout 4-5 times a week, and my body shows the couple years of effort and good nutrition: including a somewhat bulky six pack. My face is decent, too, at least a bit above average.
I've got some masculinity, mystery, strength of will, and I am who I am unabashedly and without shame. I am calm and confident, generally. I know what I want, and I have the courage to go after it.
At the same time, I can be tender with those I care about. I understand what others need, and I consider them. I've been through a lot in my life--a lot--and it's made me grow into a strong man who understands suffering, who's been to the bottom of the barrel and came out on top.
I'm always growing. Every day I wake up, I'm a better person than I was the day before. Every day, I learn something or adjust my behavior or thought process in order to become a better human being. I know I've got a long way to go, and I have many flaws I still need to work on; but, I try, and I try hard: and I grow, perpetually.
I am interesting. I have many layers to me and have a lot going on in my life. I am also rich, both in terms of money and knowledge. I am a bit harsh and give people positive criticism and they like that honesty.
There's other things I can think of but I don't want to write too much and spoil the fun.
Here's a bit more, just a teaser, I have never been dumped even though I have 4 exes. I have friends that I stopped talking to 3 to 4 years ago who still call me up asking me if I want to spend time with them even though I have made it abundantly clear I don't.
Most Helpful Girls
Some people think I'm pretty enough to approach, I also like to joke around and laugh a lot so I catch guys sometimes just chiming in and smiling along.
I'm understanding, helpful and kind to ppl's emotions, sensitivities and insecurities. I like to be open-minded and have deep conversations (when people are up for it) and if they aren't I can listen to ppl's topics and chime in every now and again, but I don't prefer doing that all the time. I'm quite easy going at first, and so I find myself catering to other ppl's needs rather than mine, which often makes them like me but I don't feel as comfortable because sometimes I don't feel like myself around them, just the vision that they wanted me to be.
The guys that ask me out without knowing me well usually say something about my face or my hair. Except for one who made a really weird comment about my neck. Or sometimes if they’ve been to one of my concerts they’ll say something about my voice. But I think that’s just because it’s the only thing they know about me other than what I look like.
The guys that ask me out having known me for a while, tend to say that I smile a lot, and that I’m innocent, or that they like that I want to help people.
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