There was this guy I was seeing... we were seeing each other on and off for a little over a year. We had some disagreements, and sometimes I'd go off on him. I was standing up for myself in the game of love I guess you could say. He kept giving me mixed signals. First one being that he told me straight out in the beginning of our "fling" that he didn't want a relationship. I said it's fine...we did our thing. We'd usually text each other late at night after getting in. We'd almost always stay by each others house unless it was a week night, then he'd usually go home. In the beginning it was weird because he'd do very cute things, it seemed like he liked me more than he was leading on. I asked him once, and told him I liked him. He told me he liked me only as a friend. I got crushed and went off on him telling him not to do such cute things like sing to me anymore. Childish, I know. I let my emotions get in the way. I apologized some time later and we started talking again. When we first hung out after that break, he told me he loved hanging with me and thinks I'm awesome but can't get into a relationship because there are goals he still needs to accomplish. All was well...then he started getting into deeper convo's and talking less. Contradictive but true. He started talking about an ex and an abusive relationship then all of a sudden stopped and had to go. He would say he hates everyone, then change it to hates himself then get frustraded, stop talking and have to go. He started ignoring me and when I asked what was up and if he hates me or something, he said no but he couldn't do it anymore. I said OK. I asked him how he was doing a couple months ago and we started seeing each other again. Only as a fling of course. And hardly ever. He called me 3 times within just minutes one night very late and I didn't answer. I told him the next day that I'm seeing someone and we can't meet up for a while. He has been ignoring me ever since. did I hurt him? I wouldn't think so cause he never said he wanted more...but who knows. I'm hoping a guy can help with this one...or anyone really. Much needed advise. I really liked him a lot. Or do like him rather.