Most Helpful Guys
When someone cheats it's never the other persons fault. Even if the other person is being a bad boyfriend/girlfriend, nothing is stopping the cheater from breaking up first before fucking other people.
Anyone who cheats, male or female, is a piece of shit, period. Even more so, if they try to blame it on their SO.
I don't care if it's lack of affection, loss of attraction, a fight, they work too much, revenge, whatever. If the relationship is to the point where you want/need to sleep with someone else, then break up with your current bf/gf first.
If you're cheating, then there's obviously nothing there worth saving, anyway, so be an adult; end it, and move on. It can be the other person's fault, why the relationship is falling apart, certainly, but it is your own fault that you're too much of a sleezebag to do the right thing.
Most Helpful Girl
No its always the cheaters fault no excuses