I've never made a move, because she had a boyfriend the whole time but just two weeks ago she and her boyfriend split up and I knew quite a bit about the whole ordeal because she confided in me a lot during the last few months of their relationship, which were pretty bad months.
Eventually, I'm absolutely going to ask her out because I can't not. She's amazing. But my question is, when is it appropriate to do so? And maybe even more importantly, how? I've never been great at the whole asking a girl out thing but this is like, the first time I've just felt "suck it up, she's worth every bit of a try".
Any and all help would be much appreciated! Thanks.
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First off I would really think about this situation before you act on it. I am sure your feelings for the girl are genuine & you can see yourself with her, but what if it doesn’t end well? I’m not trying to end what could be a wonderful relationship before it’s even started, but speaking from experience, dating a co worker is great to start with but when things go wrong, it makes life difficult at work. How about you try out a friendship for a little while? Some of the best relationships are built on friendships. That way you get to know her better & gives her time to get over her boyfriend. Just be friends for now, if it feels right you can ask her out in a few months. But do think of the consequences of dating someone you work with!