Tomorrow I have a date and I need to get out of it?

So me and this guy agreed to go on a date thing is im a virgin and we planned on having sex and I'm feeling like im not ready to have sex anymore so i need an excuse to come out of the date dont tell me to just tell him im not ready because we been planning it for a while and he always asked me if i was ready and i said yes so please give me a good excuse to come out of it if

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Most Helpful Guy

  • You need to take ownership of yourself, and of you body. Just because you planned to have sex, does not mean you can't just tell him you changed your mind, and you are not ready. Even if you planned it for a year. If you tell him, and he doesn't understand, then you are lucky that you are not loosing your virginity to a jerk. Any decent guy would be understanding of your situation, and would want to make you comfortable and wait, or even not have sex at all. Yes, a guy does look with anticipation when he thinks he will have sex. But unless he's a jerk, that will not matter much at all to him.

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  • I would personally be very very honest with him. Call/text him and say that you’re really sorry and although you thought you were ready you don’t think so anymore. Say that you truly thought so before, but it has changed and you hope he forgives you as it’s so last minute. If you try to use some stupid excuse he will probably just try to reschedule and then you’ll still have the same issue of getting out of it. If you STILL wanna go for the excuse although it wouldn’t really work, you could just say you got your period, enough said

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What Guys Said 2

  • Just tell him you actually don't think you're ready, you can still go on the date with him. He's probably gonna know you're lying if you use a fake excuse anyway.

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  • Just throw any excuse at him honestly, He's gonna get annoyed anyways haha

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What Girls Said 2

  • Either he accepts that you are not ready, or he is not worth your time.. and he is definitely not worth your virginity.

    ***Listen to me- You have the right to change your mind at any time!!!

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  • Just tell him the truth.

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