We were supposed to check her office for a project and when I did, while she was showing me how I could make it better, I had complimented her "I am glad I am lucky to have someone like you for teaching all those things". Rather than just smiling and dodging it, she had told "I know you like me and I am not bothered by it". That was completely different than talking these with a student and I had the feeling of guilty, but I was surprised she had looked at it so normally. I could had just leaved, but I wanted her telepnone number because I felt she wanted me to take a step by inviting it. I texted her on the night. She had dodged me directly by saying she was busy, I hadn't believed it at all but I didn't complain about it either. Sometimes people need time and they don't want to break your heart, you just need to give them some time. In few days, we chatted and I was even afraid of flirting with her, that she was being a instructor still was different. She was someone already graded my many quizes and assigments. We met on a bar and it went really good, we went to a park after it to sit for a while and nothing happened more for the first date normally. I didn't expect it to either, I was pretty serious with her. She had told she liked it very much and we had left after walking in the park bit.
On the same night, as soon as she got home she told she is going to delete me from her phone and we must stop it. Since it is forbidden for the ethics of university, I had no other choice other than accepting it and I didn't push her.
Have you ever had anything similar?
*updated for not having enough words.
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I am a school teacher, I now heard a lot about students being attracted to their teachers. I guess its naturally, since you spend so much time seeing that person for a long period of time, I am glad I teacher the little ones :)
I did kinda went on a few dates with my sisters high school teacher years ago, not knowing it was dating. I was too young. I was 25 or 26 maybe, him 32.
Yes. I have.
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When I was 14 in high school I remember my English/History teacher, let's call her Howell, was so fucking gorgeous. She was a really sophisticated woman and with a huge sexy brain that made all the more attractive for her intelligence. Really kind and sweet too. And 37. I actually started doing lectures at high schools in my area recently since starting my company and one of the ones I've gone to? Yup, my former school. And guess who was there.
We had a pretty good chat and are still talking 'cause she's becoming sort of a colleague/friend now but I did end up accidentally letting it slip how much of a crush I had on her when I was in her class but she took it pretty much in stride. She's 43 now. Sure we're both adults now but I've moved on in my life, she's moved on in hers and it's just not realistic for anything to happen.
Besides, I've been with my lovely, gorgeous, smart girlfriend for over a year now and nothing's worth jeopardizing what I have with her. Worth noting my girlfriend is almost a decade older than me too. Guess I kinda have a type.