What should I do in this crazy situation?
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By being protective, you are likely ruining the relationship. You can't act too protective, that is, too much more protective than she is willing to accept, or she will feel smothered and caged. She is also harming the relationship by not getting help. You don't say anything about how she is doing, how the rape is effecting, or not effecting, her and the relationship.
That is a crazy situation. You know she's mentally unstable right now, so don't necessarily take everything you guys fight over to heart. I completely understand why you're so protective, but maybe back off a little if you can. Everyone needs their space, especially someone in a situation like that.
But this isn't something anyone online is qualified to answer. It's serious. If she's unwilling to find help, then maybe you should go and talk to a hotline or whatever and ask how you can help her.
Best of luck to you and your girlfriend dude. I was very close to a girl who was raped, although it was before I met her and she wasn't my girlfriend, so it probably doesn't compare to what you're going through. Nonetheless, it was really hard to find what to say other than the normal "comfort" stuff, and to this day she's still affected by it. Seriously, best of luck man.
Personally I'd tear his head off. But sorry to say it but she's now got baggage and this relationship is going to be hard work
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