In general, he was at the time, super sweet to me, caring, and we did not fight often. I am very sure and confident that he really loves me and only has eyes for me- I trust him, he's quiet and isn't the type to talk to girls often. I just don't understand why he needed to ask that to her. I am also worried- why would he even need to be curious on another girls relationship status, to the point of sending her an anonymous question? Why would he wake up one day and think "who is ___ dating?" What concerns me even more is that he refused to tell me who he asked, and its bugging me too much. Fast forward a few months, I am starting to get anxious about it again, and I really want to ask him about it again even though when I said I wouldn't. I have told him that I had something on my mind that I really wanted to know, but he wouldn't tell me before, and after I said that, he wanted to know what it was. Even though he's open to knowing what I said I wouldn't bring up again, Im terrified it will ruin things. What do you think?
Most Helpful Guy
If he was comfortable enough sharing that he said it in the first place I don't see why he would have anything to hide, if he was hiding something he most likely would have lied and said that he hadn't used the app or not told you the entire truth in the first place. If you trust him then it shouldn't be an issue, he was probably annoyed at the fact that you wouldn't drop the subject and nothing more. If it really does concern you talk about it with him. I'm sure that if he truly does care about your feelings towards it he would have no problem clarifying. Try not to stress about the little things especially when it's months afterwords. Relationships are all about communication! :)
Most Helpful Girl
It's a normal question. You should be more concerned if he asked this to her not anonymously but in a private message. That puts him in a situation where he is openly curious about her relationship status, and he doesn't hide it, whereas on that app, the girl will never ever know the asker. So its not like your boyfriend asked because he wanted to date her or anything.
U should really put this behind and focus on the good moments you both share together.