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Women of course
Women of course
Girls have it easier at the start, because boys are at that age where they bang anything that moves, but that's not really what we want haha
but later on when we get older boys have it a lot easier than us.
I agree with your assessment, but it is a little more complex than that. Women do want sex and men do want love. Also, some men are primarily looking for sex and some women are primarily looking for love. To further complicate things, sex and love are closely intertwined for both sexes. Romantic love without sex gets kinda boring without sex after a while, and raw animal attraction without an emotional component is really only fun in small doses.
Bottom line? Both sexes have it equally hard.
Women have it easier. Most of the time we just have to be pretty and easy going and guys ask us out plan the activities and propose when they want to. It’s not common for women to put as much effort and planning into dating
If we're just talking about how easy it is to get laid, yes women seem to have it easier, but in terms of forming quality relationships, I don't think anyone has it easy, and I am not sure it SHOULD be easy.
I think women. That said, I think everyone who sleeps with someone to find love is making a foolhardy mistake.
Women with healthy self esteem and self respect
It’s easy for women to get guys but if she doesn’t react herself she will be more likely to accept a bad relationship or he toyed with bc guys are willing to lie pretend they like her just to get sex
In terms of getting dates by the numbers, ladies. I won't even pretend that's not true. Take a step online, any woman thinks she has it rough, I'm sure a guy has it three times as bad (in regards to moths in the inbox)
I think women have it worse because we're more likely to be solicited by people who are rude, don't want to take no for an answer, badger us etc.
No one really has it easy. But I'd women have a slight edge. Only slightly because we got vaginas but in reality not everyone will like you if you have a shitty personality or have shitty opinions. It's easier for attractive people also.
It's dependant on the person's circumstances and self esteem usually the boisterous out there younger girls find dating easier but also reject perfect men on the basis they don't fit their ideal but on the reverse older men do the same thing on the basis they want the younger non dependant female.
I think its tougher for men but mainly because men do most of the asking for dates. Neither gender likes rejection.
Men have it somewhat harder. I agree with you about men and sex. Women want love first. Most women do.
At your age women have it easier. At my age men have it easier in my opinion, generally speaking
Neither. We are all assholes!
You and I.
Men are testosterone-driven and hence WANTS to date for the eventuality: sex.
Women are more emotionally driven and hence won't just date any guy who approaches them.
In the entire dating process (from first "hello" to sex), woman chooses to rejects man more often in the beginning.
This means, if the "initial introduction" is bad, she says no; or the first date is not "up to standard", she says no; or if the the next two or three dates he says something to rash or to demanding, she says no.
But if the man can pass the "inertial phase", where the girl thinks that he is "good enough" or "he's so loving" or "I'm sure this is love", then the ball is in the man's court.
This means, some kind of emotional attachment has been form in her. She is not likely to be the one to break up unless of course there is something major happening.
The guy now maneuvers her for the eventual objective: sex.
Some guys wait until marriage. Ah yes, the "good guys".
Other guys wait for a relationship but before marriage; or eventually work out a friends with benefits kind of relationship.
Yet others simply want to fuck and then go. They appears very romantic, very patient, very loving, ... [everything very pretentious] ... until she believes him and open her legs; or until he's tired of trying and leave. The "Players".
So my opinion is: In the entire dating cycle, initially, girls can have dates much easier than guys. But after she accepted him, he has most of the control.
You're kidding right?
Men have to break the ice and ask for the date. Men have to decide where to go on the date. Men have to pay for it. Men have to restrain their sexual urges on the date so she thinks he's a gentleman.
What do women do? They get dressed, show up and give the guy a thumbs up or thumbs down and never see him again after all he went through.
Men have harder for obvious reasons. They gotta initiate the first move, they gotta ask the girl out, they gotta tell her what she wants to hear, they're expected to pay for dates, they gotta kiss her ass, they gotta do most of the work when tapping that ass lol. They gotta text first, they gotta show that they care about her feelings, they gotta deal with the biatch once a month foe a week, they gotta deal with the constant nonsense mind games and testing women do... which is why some guys get fed up put you back in your place after giving the D. Cos your challenges is no longer worth the effort. The good guys unfortunately have it hard cos they try to do right but your non ever fulfilled self..
Women generally have it easier because they feel that they are a privlage to men and they use and abuse that thought to the fullest. But little they know, some guys out are nonsense bullet proof.
In my opinion is all just waste of time b. s.
Money over bitches (not good women who are very very rare)
Women have more options, but most of those options suck. Men are trying to wow women who have other suitors.
Consequently, I've noticed more women saying "men are piggish trash," and more men saying that "women are flighty and ungrateful."
I don't know that it's harder for either of us. I just think we're playing different games.
We're all shitty, though.
I voted that women have it easier and generally they do. There is an old saying; "Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationships." The saying is incredibly true!
Women have a much easier time using dating to find sex than a man does. If a woman wants to have sex she can find someone in less than a day. Now this does not take into account the 80/20 rule where most women are only attracted to the top 20% of men. The only women that have a difficult time finding sex are the ones trying to date above their sexual market value. Unfortunately for most men looking for a sexual relationship that is most women.
Most men have a much harder time finding sex via dating than women do. Again we go back to the 80/20 rule. The men in the 80% have huge issues finding female dating partners for sex.
When we get to relationships everything switches around most especially as women start to age. At that point men are pretty much in control of the entire dating scene. Thus you have all the posts about, 'Where have all the good men gone!'
So in reality your question has an expiration date. When young, women have an incredibly easy time dating. When not so young anymore the tables turn so that men have a much easier time dating.
It's much easier for women. All the have to do is say yes or no. ;)
The burden of performance for couples is ALWAYS on the man. After all, if there's a problem it is ALWAYS his fault, NEVER the fault of any woman. They remain blameless for ANYTHING that happens in their own life. Just ask them! Everything that happens to them is due to an uncontrollable external force of some sort. Again, just ask them!
Women get invited more often and don't bear the cast. Men get rejected all the time and that hurts. Girls are much more difficult to get to know because they often get emotional about unimportant things.
Women have it way more easier because women can attract many guys simply with their looks. A man actually has to put in a effort by showing power, confidence, wealth, a sense of humor and trustworthiness. It doesn’t matter how “good looking” the man is, his looks alone will not attract women. That’s the cold hard truth.
Saying guys only want sex is kind of a dick thing to say, not all guys are asses like that. From what I've expirienced, girls won't even give a good guy a chance and even when trying to be nice a girl may misconstrue that to be creepy just because, i will agree with you, kindness from a guy is reletively hard to find these days but i promise you it does exist.
Women of course! Didn't you all see the recent tinder scam? She had literally hundreds of men drooling over her, made them compete with each other for her and humiliated them, found the best out of them all and still said there was no chemistry. All this done by an ugly 6. Men get nothing compared to women.
I think, guys have it harder, setting things up, especially if they're inexperienced, there's no guide when it comes to women, there's vague similarities you can use to try and be charming and hold the relationship, but every girl is different, and rejection at any stage can be crushing
Depends on the man or woman, and I don't know as far as gay or lesbian relationships go. There are some men who just have women throwing themselves at them literally every day. They have it the easiest. Then there are most women, who just have to deny a bunch of losers until they find one of those men at the top. Then there are the rest of the men and a few women who are just undateable.
Women, unquestionably. They are the demand, men are not. They are the hot commodity on the market, high demand. No where near the same as it is for men.
When it comes down to it women get who they want men get what they can, women are often the centre of a relationship meaning the guy needs to impress her, he needs to take her out, and ngl in 2018 some girls are very intitled, often using the fact guys are the ones chasing, so they can be led on
The question is "who has it easier when it comes to 'dating' " ... not relationships. How many times would a man turn down a woman who asks HIM on a date? She'd have to be beastly or have a terrible personality. But women turn guys down ALL the time, for any number of reasons, so it's MUCH harder for a guy to "date". A woman who can't get a "date" at will just doesn't know what she's doing !!
Of course women have it easier all they have to do is show up and be entertained the man's got to do all the work plan the night and keep her entertained and pay for everything
Women have a hard time finding a man that takes them seriously.
Men have a hard time finding a woman that they take seriously.
It can also be the reverse in any given situation.
Love is weird.
It's glaringly obvious , women by a huge margin. Men generally desire women overall far more than women desire men, There are considerably more available males than females worldwide. Also more & more women are following the " I don't need no man " female popular culture and staying single by choice.
Dating for a guy is kind of a catch 22. It basically comes down to confidence, those that don't have it get rejected so in turn that knocks their confidence. The confident guys have it easy which strokes their ego and as such become more confident.
But it depends. I think finding a good relationship is as hard for both. But dating is another matter.
Women duh. They hold the keys to sex, to relationships etc. Men must approach and not get denied, they must not be ugly and insecure. Men must be financially stable. Only difficult thing for women is in the rare occasion she is attract and men are intimidated to approach her otherwise men have it most difficult 99.9% of time
I don't think it's actually easy for guy or girl, but women have a bit of an edge, in general. That's because men will fall for sex every time, and women are generally intuitive enough not to fall for every guys love lines.
women have it easier for sex guys have it easier to find love.
Women always have a line of friendzoned guys ready to jump at the chance with her guys have to go and get the girls and get rejected and probably humiliated. But women get more partners but typically run into many guys who are dicks who only want them for sex and get cheated on a lot. Guys get cheated on too but its a lot easier to find a good girl than a good guy.
Oh please women have it easier and they absolutely can't deny this.
Men have to ask them out. All dating apps is basically a buffet for women.
Women don't have to do anything they just choose who they want.
Men have to come up with ways to meet a girl. That's why things like pick up artists exists.
Have you ever met a female pick up artist? Cause I certainly have never heard of such a thing.
But you'll get laid by basically any guy in a five mile radius if you're even remotely attractive enough.
Us men are not so lucky.
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