What does it mean when a girl says "I like guys who make me not shy and insecure"?

I see this or variation on tinder a lot and i don't get it. I'm told to get over my issues, but they seem to want the other person to "fix" them. Is that healthy and/or normal for girls to expect of guys?

I realize it might a be a double standard that guys have to blame themselves while girls can blame the guy when chemistry isn't right, but if this is a thing i should be capable of doing, what extra should i do in talking to girls to cater to this?


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  • I think it basically mean "please don't be an asshole, I'm fragile"

  • See it as the blessing it is lol why would u date someone who said that it's a show to avoid them


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