Well talking to several girls and dating several girls is different, though if someone's telling them all the same thing then it's likely because it's a line he uses.
I personally don't feel bad for it. If I commit then that's different. But that's not what you asked. Guys like the one your talking about never feel guilt.
I believe (It's still an opinion) girls are the culprit here. Girls tend to take time when it comes to deciding if he is the right guy or not. Sometimes they tend to take way too much time. And, even online, girls tend to reply very late usually. By this time, men will look for options and by the time first person replies, most of the others also do. So, he will have several girls to talk to.
A lot of guys don't know what there thinking while they are doing that if that's the case A he's trying to find the one that's most loyal or one that can hold conversations or B he's a fuckboy trying to get all the attention he can an nd has to talk to multiple girls cause that guy calls it cool.
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It’s a kind of “not putting egg in one basket” kind of deal, but only kind of.
They are forced to be opportunistic. Guys have to seize on opportunities as they arise and they have to cultivate a social life where these opportunities arise. They can afford to just stop talking.
I do feel bad about it sometimes bu i mean its just "cutie" maybe a line or two etc and only when i mean it, never like "i never felt this way about anyone" etc. there's a fine line between a little flirting/turning on and deception
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Well dating can kinda be like hunting people don’t want to have a sniper riffle and shoot one shot for a duck (duck being a person) and so what they do is bring a shotgun (shotgun being talking to a lot of people) so that no matter where they aim they will hit at least one
When I’m single I just flirt with whoever unless very I’m exclusively talking to someone most of the time they don’t really like me back so it’s just for boredom but I sAy most guys like to have backup options if it doesn’t work out
Most guys can barely get any girl to talk to them. This applies WAY more to girls. A girl who is average or above in this day and age who is NOT texting at least 4 guys does not exist. Don’t put this on us honey.
Same reason girls talk to multiple guys. Most people either have options or they are looking for options. No girl is the only girl on a guy's mind much like no guy is the only guy on a girls mind. No one is 100% faithful in that regard.
Its insincerity. .. they are fishing... it can be two things though... one. they dont know how to talk to women so they use the same line to see which one bites... fishing... Two... they are not interested at all really.. just trying to hook up.
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Well talking to several girls and dating several girls is different, though if someone's telling them all the same thing then it's likely because it's a line he uses.
I personally don't feel bad for it. If I commit then that's different. But that's not what you asked. Guys like the one your talking about never feel guilt.
I believe (It's still an opinion) girls are the culprit here. Girls tend to take time when it comes to deciding if he is the right guy or not. Sometimes they tend to take way too much time. And, even online, girls tend to reply very late usually. By this time, men will look for options and by the time first person replies, most of the others also do. So, he will have several girls to talk to.
A lot of guys don't know what there thinking while they are doing that if that's the case A he's trying to find the one that's most loyal or one that can hold conversations or B he's a fuckboy trying to get all the attention he can an nd has to talk to multiple girls cause that guy calls it cool.
It’s a kind of “not putting egg in one basket” kind of deal, but only kind of.
They are forced to be opportunistic. Guys have to seize on opportunities as they arise and they have to cultivate a social life where these opportunities arise. They can afford to just stop talking.
Instead of getting pissed a guy is talking to more than one woman, why not show him why you are better than the rest?
Rage qyitting doesn't solve shit.
I have for the few months we’ve been talking. And he posted on his Instagram story today his username and said to add him. He’s just a POS
I do feel bad about it sometimes bu i mean its just "cutie" maybe a line or two etc and only when i mean it, never like "i never felt this way about anyone" etc. there's a fine line between a little flirting/turning on and deception
Well dating can kinda be like hunting people don’t want to have a sniper riffle and shoot one shot for a duck (duck being a person) and so what they do is bring a shotgun (shotgun being talking to a lot of people) so that no matter where they aim they will hit at least one
When I’m single I just flirt with whoever unless very I’m exclusively talking to someone most of the time they don’t really like me back so it’s just for boredom but I sAy most guys like to have backup options if it doesn’t work out
Most guys can barely get any girl to talk to them. This applies WAY more to girls. A girl who is average or above in this day and age who is NOT texting at least 4 guys does not exist. Don’t put this on us honey.
Same reason girls talk to multiple guys. Most people either have options or they are looking for options. No girl is the only girl on a guy's mind much like no guy is the only guy on a girls mind. No one is 100% faithful in that regard.
but how do you know it's not multiple girls competing for him trying to get some D?
Same reason women do. Until a commitment is made, finding a mate is purely a numbers game. Everyone keeps their options open.
Its insincerity. .. they are fishing... it can be two things though... one. they dont know how to talk to women so they use the same line to see which one bites... fishing... Two... they are not interested at all really.. just trying to hook up.
Cause if a guy asks out 10 girls MAYBE 2 will give him a first date. If he only tries one at a time he'll be single forever.
It's like economics. Diversification of investment is the best way to avoid losing everything on one bad guess.
So many girls lead you on and play you, so you talk with a few so that you don't take it too seriously
Just there on the opposite side. She wanted to find the best one out of all of them. She picked me😎
Because they are not serious about any of those girls, but haven't found -the one- yet.
keeping there options open... because they know they will scare away 75% of them
I do it too, unless I meet someone I’m extremely down for. I think as long as they clarify that, it’s completely okay tbh.