Ik girls do that too but Im talking about guys now.
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So what happens is, there is no nice way to turn someone down. And every person has their way they would prefer it done to them. Some like honesty, others like to give subtle hints, or even indicate things.
People who like subtlety think it’s a bother to be brutally honest.
Some start by trying to be, like telling it’s a no go.
But then again they see the other person suffering and want to ease that, hence some bullshit they say to try to make the person feel better. Like maybe in the future or something.
Then some of them will badmouth about it to others. Like how insistent or clingy the other person is etc etc