What things have prevented you from being honest about your feelings for someone you cared for?

  • Doubted whether He/ she did like me
    Vote A
  • Had no time to date, so saw no point in confessing
    Vote B
  • Was worried Iโ€™d mess it up if we got involved , so saw no point in confessing.
    Vote C
  • Too shy
    Vote D
  • Did not want to be ridiculed
    Vote E
  • Other
    Vote F
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Fear of rejection is probably the biggest roadblock

    • I hear you ๐Ÿ˜ž

    • If you got past that, what would you say?

    • At some point you look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself , is it worth the potential pain I MAY feel to tell them how I feel and be rejected?
      Or to life life beside them, never telling them the truth, and watching them happy with someone else while I die inside?
      Itโ€™s a tough thing to figure out

Most Helpful Girl

  • I belong to a conservative society where people think it is disgraceful for a girl to fall in love first. My mom thinks it is a sin to fall in love. I fell in love with my long distant cousin, and I told my aunty to inform him because he is my aunty's brother-in-law, not sure if she has informed him yet. First, she said no because she said I change my mind every minute, and they think I am too young to get involved in these matters, and I am like I just want him to know about my feelings, I will not marry until I complete my education to make my parents happy.


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What Guys Said 3

  • There should be an option of - All of the above
    Yes , from mine side it's all of the above

    • Of
      I did not think of that.

  • Having them being used against me or misunderstood.

  • Our being married - to other people.

    • Pretty solid excuse ๐Ÿ˜

What Girls Said 2

  • I was way out of his league and there was no use because I knew heโ€™d never like me back.

  • Family


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