... What? I don't understand. If you don't make your presence and interest known to someone, how, precisely, are they to know you are interested?
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It's because doing those things is hard for a lot of people, and while some find a way to power through, others prefer to give up, and many of those then want to blame others for their own failures.
As a guy of below-average physical attractiveness, believe me that I know it's hard to put yourself out there - but you can't succeed without risk.
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@ChronicThinker because girls reject guys right from the beginning. A girl who shows interest shows it indirectly and never directly states that they like us. Even i tried the "do you like me or no question" and the response is always a classic riddle. Guys and girls who go on tinder and hookup are more likely of success because its become a casual sex generaton instead of a relationship generation. The worst part is that guys who lie are succesfully having sex with girls and honest single guys intending to build a relationship are overlooked. Flirting and the girl accuses guys of sexual harassment either before or after.
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Maybe a lot of people just don't see the sense. I relate to what the following message says.
I don't know, I mean I'm not outwardly expressing why I'm single and stuff 😂😂 but I don't really flirt or make my interest known (mainly because I don't find enough serious guys in my life that are willing to take on a serious and long lasting relationship. So I don't outwardly express interest) but when a guy expresses interest, I do take their offer seriously and determine if it could potentially work out.
But yeah, I mean as long as you aren't a piece of log that doesn't know how to communicate or even have a decent convo, I don't see why people wouldn't be expressing interest regardless of flirting/approaching people.
Personally I don't like approaching anyone unless they are in my social circle, I'm quite shy and cautious around guys... so for me, I do wonder why other girls that act aloof get more requests, but I'm not gonna complain too much about it. Often times, these things just need a spark and I just haven't found that yet to be persuaded to flirt or even express interest.