I already have a Bachelor's degree in business and men in higher education are becoming scarce. I am 5'10 and muscular. I am in no debt and I have a moderately high paying job. I am not rich, but I am definitely well off.
Statistically speaking, most men don't go to college and even less men are enrolling in college than ever before. For the men that do go to college, they have a vast amount of student loan debt. I don't have any amount of student loan debt. Most men don't work out and have dad bods. As a result, I feel like I have earned the right to say that I am above average.
Do I sound confident or arrogant?
Most Helpful Girl
It depends on how you go about it. If you drop all of that on a woman within 5 mins of meeting her, arrogant. Over a first date if it gets discussed casually during dinner or something, confident. It's all about how you present it. Obviously those are things to be proud of and they set you apart, but they're not what makes you a person. I would casually touch on those things like once. The girl won't forget it. Then focus on finding common interests between you and her.
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Most Helpful Guy
Arrogance is boasting with why you have reason to be confident. Confidence is showing you're happy with who you are even if you don't have any reason to be confident.
If you start rationalising why you're better than others (especially if you tell people "I'd make a suitable mate (to you)"), people will view you as arrogant.