We’ve never actually had THE TALK about what we are but I think somewhere along the lines we kinda agreed we’re just having a bit of fun - which I was completely fine with. However now he keeps bringing up the idea of moving in together because we’re both in similar situations of wanting to move out... part of me thinks it’s just a way for him to move out sooner but there other part says I can see it going somewhere.. I know 6 months isn’t exactly a long time to start concidering such a commitment like this ESPECIALLY if were not even together, which brings me to my next point.
I haven’t spoken to anyone else since things kinda started up, there was no conversation to say ‘don’t talk to other people’ but I wouldn’t feel right talking to others and then making him still travel to come see me every other week. But I recently noticed he is still receiving messages from the site we met on as well as a number of other different dating sites.
I don’t want to be the girl who is like “what are we” but I don’t know what to think. It feels as if we are dating just without the label but what if he doesn’t see it that way and this is just us “hooking up” on occasion and “having fun”? ... I don’t know, what should I do?