I don’t get first date butterflies or excited I’d rather just sleep with them and send them on their way. And after I sleep with them no matter how hot they are or how good it was or how well we click I just forget about them until they call again. If they want a first date I go for food because it serves a purpose and anything else would be wasting my time.
I think I’ve hurt lots of people with this behaviour but I just don’t feel it with anyone and I make it clear I don’t want anything more but they think I’m not telling the truth when I say that.
Is this normal?
- Yes totally normall
- No, you’re a cold hearted biatch
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Your life is your life, but I’d make it super clear what you want right off the bat (If you don’t already). There’s lots of guys who prefer no strings attached anyway.
I would also suggest offering to go Dutch when eating so the guy doesn’t think you’re in it for more than you can offer romantically. Plus it minimizes guilt when you’re paying for yourself.