Is it weird to be loyal to your crush?

Im geeked over this one girl but im trying not to go after other girls. Its so tempting but i just want her. And she has a boyfriend


Most Helpful Girl

  • If she was single, maybe go with what your gut says.
    However, since she has a boyfriend already, waiting might not be a great idea. Ask yourself this, do you just like how she looks and comes off as, or do you talk to her and truly know her personally? If you just like her appearance and the idea of her, then I think you should weigh if waiting is good idea (in addition to the fact she might never leave her boyfriend).
    I know how intensely and almost irrational a crush can feel at your age, but try to see it from all perspectives. Don’t feel like you have to chase other girls if you legitimately don’t want to, it can feel a worse forcing how you feel anyway. My best advice in this case is just to respect her relationship, and try not to get to too invested in possibilities and expectations.

    • Thank you so much for that. That really put things in a different light

    • Very glad to help, best of luck regardless of what happens!

Most Helpful Guy

  • It's dumb dude. Get a girl that doesn't have a boyfriend.


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What Girls Said 1

  • you shouldn't hold out for someone that isn't waiting for you because you are missing out on life

    I get that you like her but in the meantime you can still explore your options

    • But then if she ends up being available im stuck either staying with the other girl or being an ass and leaving

What Guys Said 1

  • Nope


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