Most Helpful Guys
Doing things to keep a person happy is not the same as treating a person in a loving and caring way. Keeping someone happy, tends to imply activity running around to please someone.
A person that is being a inconvenience to himself or herself consistently for the sake of another person loves and cares for that person.
Selfish people can't love anyone and they sure as hell won't be sacrificing their comfort and life for someone else.
Most Helpful Girl
It’s not love if the same energy is not reciprocated because one person is going to feel drained while the other is leeching on their significant other. Love goes both ways and if she’s just focusing on her own source of happiness than she’s selfish.