would you still carry on to see them again? even though they didn't "wow" you.
- Yes, personally i'd still want to go on a 2nd date.
- No, if the vibe doesn't feel right i wouldn't bother.
- I'd go on one more date, and if i still feel the same way end it there.
- I don't know what a spark or chemistry is.
Most Helpful Guys
Yes. On a first date, there are many things going on, sometimes things are a bit stressed, and it can be difficult to relax enough to truly enjoy being with someone. At times, it takes a few shared laughs and few lingering moments of looking into each other's eyes before you start to feel the sparkle. If I didn't really like the person, a second date would be a waste of time, but I have had second dates where the spark suddenly appeared, so. . . in my experience, give it a second chance before you pull the plug on someone who you otherwise really like.
Most Helpful Girls
Yes I would and did. I think a first date is always scary. And sometimes the other person (or maybe me as well) gets so nervous that the sparks don't fly. My mom said it could grow so I gave it a second chance. But after the second time I still felt nothing, only awkwardness. I did make it very clear after the first one that I didn't feel anything, but was willing to give it another chance. In my case at the second date, nothing happened. But I'm still great friends with him.
I think first dates are a bit too short to really get to know someone. Give it some time and see if you feel more comfortable, Chemistry or w. e. at a second date. If the second felt better than the first, then go on a third and so on. Sometimes it needs time to grow.