So yesterday I did something stupid. My intentions was something different. Since she always like surprises and always like me suprising her. I stop by her house yesterday because first to surprise and to show her I meant what I said. That I'm here for her and also we haven't seen each other in a month.
Man let me tell you the reaction was so bad. At first she was like dont do that ever again. Which was wrong after I think about it. But she look at me in such disgust and was standing there like I was a cancer. I was talking to her she wouldn't even look in my face.
All the time when been together she never looked at me like that. So going home I told her I apologize I f up and I'll leave u alone. And just left at that.
What is your opinion on this?
She hit me with it's ok i dont want to talk anymore. How I gonna get mad at me but u the one gonna shush me. I'm done. I didn't even say anything back
So about a hr later I text her what's up? Then said again. She says "we can talk another time no rush" I said I'm not rushing ok cool.
After that she says "i didn't say u was rushing u must be having a bad day from how I sound " I replied " how u know how i sound from a text message i actually good. Appreciate it"
She replies " no prob" I mean what's was that? Is she feeling guilty?
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah this doesn't seem right :-|
If I went through family and financial issues, having a boyfriend who cares and then also stop by is an act of caring, especially if you haven't seen each other in a month!
To me, she's acting like she's hiding something. Sorry to say, but I would question that particular behavior. I'd ask her about it.
Because logically, her reaction is not rational. You didn't fuck up. Without knowing exactly what, she's reacting because she's done something she hasn't told you about.
I'd have a discussion (clear as day) about it all. Whether or not she's honest is another thing, but that is something you have to determine when you talk to her.
Why be together if you cannot trust her?
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Most Helpful Guy
You shouldn't feel guilty for her being peculiar other then maybe buyers regret perhaps