Boyfriend flirting with coworker?
What Guys Said 1
I know this is difficult, but you're going to have to let him do his thing. He's doing something that makes you uncomfortable and therefore you want to tell him to stop doing it so you don't feel uncomfortable anymore, but here's my logic... Do you want a man that is faithful to you only because you tell him to be faithful meanwhile he's thinking about other women? Or do you want a man who's faithful to you because he actually wants to be faithful?
You've got to let him do his thing, you can't control him. If you're together with him, you've got to trust him. With that being said, here's what I think you should do...
Bring it up again, tell him that it feels like he's flirting with this girl and if he even attempts to say you're jealous, shut him down and tell him that it's not jealousy, you just expect some respect in this relationship and let him know that you're prepared to leave if he's not going to give you that. This way it shows him that you've got your own life, he isn't the best thing since sliced bread and if he's not going to take you and your relationship seriously then he can be prepared to lose you.
After you've had this conversation with him, don't bring it up again and just observe his behavior. Hopefully he puts in effort to reassure you that he's not flirting with her, but if you feel like he's not being completely upfront, don't be afraid to dump him and teach him a lesson.
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