I was in a relatively minor car accident and my boyfriend never checked up on me or texted/called to see if I was okay?
What Guys Said 3
He may be considering the same as this is weird to show no concern
I totally understand how you feel, but can I play devil's advocate here? These are just possibilities to consider. You haven't checked in on him either have you? He might be feeling this also about you. He will likely also be feeling REALLY bad about the accident and having put you in that position. It might even be bordering on depression. It can affect some people this way. In which case he'll just be isolating himself, not just from you, but the world. Also, what are his injuries? Are they more severe possibly? Maybe he's just too focused on that at the moment.
I don't know how he is with you in general, so that is what I would base this on. Is he normally inconsiderate like this, or is it just this accident? In situations like this, I always try and put myself in the other person's place and ask myself, "how would I feel" or "what would I do". And everyone is different. Just some things to consider. Maybe he is just really inconsiderate and "doesn't care", but it's possible that's just your feelings and not true at all.
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