She thinks a guy should want to make a good first impression this way, but doesn’t know quite how to respond. In other words, she does not want to say “yes” and she doesn’t want to say “no.” The result is that she has not responded at all!
How should she handle this?
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Meeting in a third place, makes the girl awful vulnerable, with someone she has never met before. And if something went wrong with his connections, then she would be all alone, in an unfamiliar place. It's much better that he travel the full distance to where she lives. It's safer for her, which is a big issue, when just meeting someone.