1) He trys to hit on me and get all sexual and it just confirms my point that he's just a sleazebag and I should move on because I deserve better than a guy like that who treats love like a game.
2) Two months ago I also met this guy who I now hang out with all the time.
We have never kissed or hooked up, we are not official, we don't really flirt, or go on romantic dates but we enjoy each others company. We did go out to a restaurant once but after that it was mostly just friend type things. Recentley he caught me off guard and put his arm around me. It surprised me because he has never really shown affection and I thought he wasn't into me, I liked it so I let him. He confessed that he likes me over text, but I feel like I haven't developed feelings yet. I think spending more time will do it and now that I have closure I will slowly cut contact with the ex.
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If the new guy asks then you should be honest and say you are still friends with your ex. However I have never believed in friends after a breakup unless it was completely 100% mutual. I still think it is unhealthy to be talking to a ex while you are moving on. If I were you I would just stop with the ex and focus on the new guy and dating.