Is he ignoring me? Or is this a misunderstanding?

Everything was great the first two weeks. FaceTime calls everyday or every other. But the last time we had a real conversation was 11 days ago. We spoke for three hours and he literally did not want me to hang up the phone. But he had to go to the gym so he said he would call back. So I assumed everything was good. But after that he went silent. So I tried to hit him up like twice since he claims I never hit him up first (which isn’t true, his service just sucks). But got no response until I saw him at the gym a few days later and everything seemed great. He was so excited to see me. But then I didn’t hear from him again! Until this past Saturday when I missed his FaceTimed call. Eventually I called him back. He said that he’s been trying to reach me but I’m not answering his calls 🙄 I know that his service is really bad where he lives. Cause we’re constantly getting cut off during our FaceTime calls. But a simple text would be fine to let me know you tried to call. He hates texting by the way. Also school just started for the both of us. He’s working on his masters. So I’m not I’m not expecting long FaceTime calls like before. But here I am again...3 days later and no response to my call. Or him attempting to reach me. What’s going on? Is he just not interested? I’ve been panicking on the inside.


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  • A suggestion might be for you to text him daily and see how he reacts. In that case he could not say you aren't initiating contact.

    • Hmm so do you think it’s a case of miscommunication?

    • I think it's possible but you don't know right now. Texting him I believe would clear up the ambiguity without directly confronting him. If you say to him, dude why can't you call me like you used to, it is direct but he may react negatively. I think texting him for at least a few days in a row 1) obviates his statement about you not contacting him, 2) allows you to see what he will do, and 3) enables you to determine if he's ignoring you or not.

    • Thank you so much

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