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They're more saavy, able to punch her hot buttons, understand her emotions better than she.
Older guys are smarter, better looking, generally have more money, are better in the sack, and better know how to entertain and treat a lady. If he's any good he can spur her interest. It's called 'game'.
Why not explain your situation and ask questions specifically to that instead of being so general. You'll get WAY more out of it. I promise.
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Often they will be abusive/possessive/controlling, but then they will dote on her verbally (I'm only this way because I love you, I'm too passionate, etc..) or with gifts. Typically the girl will stick around because he is "so sweet most of the time" or "he loves me too much" or "I can change him" or "that's not really who he is deep inside". It's all a load of crap and the abusive man will NEVER change (the only chance of change and this rarely happens is some life altering event that causes him to reconsider his entire being).
As an aside, this sounds like pop psychology stuff but there is a pretty strong correlation between girls with abusive/abandoning fathers and those who end up in relationships with abusive/manipulative (and often older) men.
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