I have been seeing someone for the past 4 months and we are not OFFICIAL YET however, we are DATING EXCLUSIVELY. I spent the night with them last night into the next day for the entire day. They bought me food for breakfast and lunch, however, is aware my birthday is next week. We did not celebrate my birthday and I was wondering should I be upset that they did not buy me a cake? Or ask me what I am doing for my birthday?