(Girls) what do you look for in a partner experience-wise? It sounds hypothcritial for me to say bc I'm like the ultimate virgin, but I'd like a more experienced guy (a preference, but not a requirement). What do you guys want?
Most Helpful Guy
I would generally steer clear of inexperienced women, but only because I'm not inexperienced. It probably would have been ideal for me if I had a girl equally inexperienced for a first girlfriend, but I didn't.
I went from crushing on girls I never even dated in my teenage years to falling for my first girlfriend and thinking she was "the one" and making all the classical mistakes of falling for her too quickly. And of course you think she's "the one" if she's your first; you have no point of comparison.
Yet I worked, over the course of dating many more women after, to the point of realizing these women were not very good for me at all, and that whatever feelings I had towards them, however strong they seemed at the time, were coming from a place of total naivety, like thinking vanilla ice cream is the best thing in the entire world when you never tried anything else.
And I would not want to date an inexperienced girl and risk her doing that towards me: of becoming all serious and falling for me so quickly, when I'm no longer capable of falling for a girl short of really falling in love with anything but the real deal (not my fantasy of who she is, but who she actually is), and only when the real deal is nothing short of amazing.
Most Helpful Girl
Every guy is different that's if he's not genuinely interested in pursuing a serious relationship with you other than sex and just making out the whole way through. A guy who is serious and wants a committed relationship will find it appealing to be your first kiss or first date as well it being a lot of pressuring making sure you enjoy whatever he's presenting to you because if not than you'll try and find what you're looking for elsewhere.
If a guy doesn't find it fun to be your first or to try and teach you than he's not the one and will probably shove his tongue down your throat and kick you out the car on a date night compared to a guy who will have the AC in the car, parked in front of your house, build the intimacy and first, pull you in slowly and teach you the right way. Even if it's not perfect he'll make sure you get it right and since it's you that he's kissing he would find enjoyment.