Do you think Interracial Dating is unfair?



It’s very cruel to men I think. Men are discriminated against because of their skin color. Many women “only date” one race of men and most women outright refuse to date a certain race - which is usually white or Asian men. It’s hard for a guy to find the girl of his dreams when so many girls won’t even look at him because of his skin color. It’s not that race is an issue - it’s that women and their “preferences” MAKE it an issue.

Interracial dating is not equal. Most interracial couples are white women with another race of man. So interracial dating means white guys LOSE. If you’re a white guy who wants to date white girls - you’re screwed because they MAINLY date Latino and Black men. Very few young white women want white guys. It causes resentment, especially in places like Europe. Where black guys who arrived in Europe 5 months ago are dating all sorts of gorgeous white girls while the white guys stay single.

So ultimately I think interracial dating is not a bad thing but if you’re a white guy - it’s horrible. It ruins your self esteem and self worth. And interracial dating creates unfair biases and jealousy. To be honest it would be better if everyone just stuck to their own. Of course it’s good for minorities and for women but not for white guys. People should be free to date who they want - it’s just unfortunate that white men pay the price for that.

Oh and black women and Asian men are also victims of this. They too suffer as a result of this.
Updates:
People can date whoever they want. It's just sad that white men are wortless to their own women as a result. That's all I'm saying. No need to get offended.

0|0
109

Most Helpful Girls

  • If the person is dating another race because they ate exotifying that other race, it has a background in racism. If you are dating another race simply because you found that individual interesting, then it's fine.

    People who freak out about women, specifically, dating another race are usually both racist and sexist.

    0|0
    0|1
    • You're calling me Racist and Sexist? Why?

      All I said was that white men (Asian men too) are at a disadvantage in the modern dating world. Everyone should be allowed to find love and everyone should be able to date their own race. Sadly, that is NOT the case. So either you hate white and Asian men and or you don't believe everyone is entitled to love.

    • Show All
    • You are sexist, and racist, and it is not true. There are statistics on such things and they prove you wrong.

    • Yeah, statistics on older generations. When it comes to young people, white girls won't date whie guys, for the most part. Why the fuck is that hard for you to understand?

  • If you have problems getting rejected for your race - date woman of your own rice - or upgrade your career - problem solved.

    0|0
    0|0
    • I am white therefore I cannot date a woman of my own race as they date black and Latino men.

Most Helpful Guy

  • "Most interracial couples are white women with another race of man"
    By number in the US, sure, because there are several times more white women than women of other races. By percent, it isn't even close. Asian women are FAR more likely to date and marry outside her race, and the vast majority are white males.

    en.wikipedia.org/.../Interracial_marriage_in_the_United_States

    "because they MAINLY date Latino and Black men"
    That simply is not true.

    Being a white guy means Asian women will literally chase you down the street for a chance to date you (it has happened to me several times).

    1|0
    0|0
    • Yeah those stats are based on OLDER GENERATIONS. Young people are the opposite.

      YOUNG White women date black and Latino men most of the time, yes or no?

    • Show All
    • Middle class and rich white girls mainly date black men too. Do you live in the US?

    • Yes, I live in the US.

      It is not yet 8:30am where I am. This morning, I have seen two high school couples WFWM, and adult couple WFWM and an adult couple AFWM. The single teenage BM I saw doesn't have a girlfriend (he is my next door neighbor's kid). I have never seen him with a girl at all. I suspect he is gay.

Recommended Questions

Have an opinion?

What Girls Said 8

  • My brother is white and has an Indonesian girlfriend. They are so in love, and no doubt, will marry as soon as they have finished uni.

    As it happens, my boyfriend is white too.

    1|0
    0|0
    • White men, Asian men and black women are severely disadvantaged when it comes to this. It's not fair.

    • Show All
    • ... so? They still get all the white girls...

    • Did not get me! Or my mum! Or any of my friends and relatives.

  • I don’t know where you got all of this information. Numerous studies show that most people date within their race.

    2|1
    0|0
    • Maybe older generations but not among young people.

    • Show All
    • So when black guys are house parties they hookup with black girls?

    • I would guess so

  • From reading last sentence, I don't suffer from someone else having love for another human. I support one's choice to date interracially. I wouldn't do it though since I just prefer black men.

    1|0
    0|0
    • Yeah but pretty much every black man wants white women, so I guess you must feel worthless.

    • Show All
    • Yeah it is white girls coming to black men. They hate white men. So you're saying most black men date black women? Even at a young age?

    • From what I see everday, Yeah

  • I think you are out of your mind. respectfully.

    1|0
    0|0
    • No I'm not. You're 28 so you have no idea what you're talking about.

    • Show All
    • The people who make comments on “how many there are” are essential racists against interracial relationships and even 1 is enough to comment on. The rest of of the free world not only accept interracial relationships but also recognize the VAST majority of relationships are not interracial. Whether you are 18, 28 or 88.

    • I don’t know. I see LOTS of those couples around.

  • It’s fully fair

    1|1
    0|0
    • Not really. Not for white dudes.

    • Show All
    • Only because of skin color? Lol

    • Yeah because women find black men more attractive.

  • get an Asian girl then they prefer white guys

    0|0
    0|0
  • Aw thats so sad that you feel discriminated against bc you're a white male :( jk you'll live. People can date whichever race they want to, and you just have to deal with it. Personally I prefer black guys (I'm white) but I have dated white guys too. Also, i know tons of chicks that only date white guys so stop acting like all women are against white guys because they're not. Sorry that a couple women turned you down and now you feel insecure and mad.

    0|0
    0|1
    • You even said so yourself that you prefer black guys. The vast majority of white girls think like you. They hate white men and only date Latino/Black men. I know I have to "deal with it" but that doesn't make it less painful nor does that solve the issue. People can date whoever they want, of course they can. But in the process that means white guys and Asian guys lose out - big time. It's not fair but it is what it is.

    • It's amazing that you think white women hate white men just because they date black guys. I even said that I have dated white guys before, so obviously theyre not excluded. And i haven't dated an Asian before but I'm not against it. Saying you prefer dating black guys is like saying you prefer green eyes. People just get sensitive because they're uncomfortable talking about race. Blue eyed people don't get upset when girls like green eyes for example, but as soon women like black guys, white guys start feeling insecure. Stop playing the victim, it shouldn't even be painful at all.

    • Yes it is painful as white guys are not wanted by their own race. It’s very easy to understand.

  • Seriously? I thought you can date whomever you want as long as they like you... and if a girl only likes you for your skin than that is pretty shallow. I'm Asian and I am married to a white/caucasian guy

    0|0
    0|0
    • Yeah but just in general girls don't really like white guys. So it's very unfair.

    • Show All
    • And what ethnicity are you?

What Guys Said 8

  • Honestly I think interracial dating is a good things simply from an evolutionary perspective as it better prepares future generations to combat epidemics and environmental change.

    I have no hesitation dating women from other races and have dated a few over the years. Some of my female friends dated Asian guys as well. Though it might be a bit more chill up here in Canada, I know race politics are a big issues in a lot of places right now.

    0|0
    0|1
    • Many men are prevented from dating who they want due to their race. This is simply wrong and unfair.

    • Show All
    • What contrary "evidence"?

    • Exactly. I gave you a bunch and you've completely ignored it. As I said earlier and should have maintained, you are creating your own problem and don't want help.

      Now go enjoy your self pity, I'm done here.

  • I have never seen anything along the lines of what you're talking about. I've seen women of non caucasian ethnicities prefer to date caucasian s over others but thats pretty much it. From your responses it seems like you may have some problems of your own that need to be worked out before approaching dating. The world doesn't work the way you think.

    0|1
    0|0
    • You're 29! I'm talking about young people! Young white women don't want white men.

    • Dude, even when I was teenager and in my early 20s it was the same way. I've got siblings and friends in their early 20s who are happily dating regardless of race. Whatever you're experiencing, it is confined to a very small minority

  • Never noticed this around here

    0|0
    0|0
  • No, it couldn't be fairer.

    0|0
    0|0
    • Not to white guys. And Asian guys.

  • Lmao interracial dating is supposed to make everything more egalitarian but all that it does it make a quasi racial hierarchy. You know what, il just stick to my own ethnic group thank you very much.

    0|0
    0|0
    • If you're a white guy, you can't.

    • I dont have to justify the continuation of my race.

  • White women aren’t worth it anymore, they’re minds have been poisoned

    0|0
    0|1
    • Poisoned? How so?

    • Black culture and porn

    • What does that even mean?

  • You're spewing a bunch of nonsense

    2|1
    0|0
    • No I am not kid.

    • Slightly exaggerated, maybe. Not complete bullshit though.

  • Why don't you whine a little more? I bet its so sexy to hear, like music to their ears. Like yeah I'm not that attracted to most mixed race women but that's basically the only bad thing interracial dating puts out there. If you can't get a woman of your own race you're very likely just bad at flirting or very unattractive.

    0|2
    0|0
    • Wrong. White women do not want to date white men anymore. Not sure why. Same for black women and Asian men - they're races no longer want them.

    • Show All
    • Then it's clear you don't understand why I am upset...

    • I am more concerned that you're upset, and I mean I understand the decline one goes through when they get lonely, I get it dude. But you're doing the psychological equivalent of picking at a wound on your leg. You owe it to yourself to pursue better self esteem and purpose.

      Quit being the kind of person that the common man and woman doesn't care about the suffering of. Go talk to a therapist, they won't tell other people about whatever you open up to them about there is no pressure.

Recommended myTakes

Loading...