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I'm going to have to say no, being pretty dosen't inherently make it harder to keep a guy. I'm approached a lot by people on the street or customers, but people I'm around and form relationships with really want something more. It happens more than I can deal with and its entirely because I have a soft, accepting, kind personality. I just come up and be nice and polite, have some good humor and try to make friends or help someone out, and they just get charmed right away. For me it's such a reverse that I almost can't make friends cause they want something more. It's all about your vibe and how approachable you feel. Looks can intimidate but if you act in a way that won't intimidate them, that stops mattering. I've honestly been thinking of being more cold and distant to people to stop this cause guys won't leave me alone. Being attractive is the first thing guys look at and certainly helps pique thier intrest. Getting them emotionally involved is a whole nother ball game and for a lot of guys comes after the fact they'd want to fuck you. It's also pretty hard for most guys to initiate, so just work on making a vibe that's easier for them to relax around you.