Another con is he’s 18 almost 19 and I’m 16. I think it’s fine but that might make my brother more denial about it.
Most Helpful Guys
Although I normally advise people to take a best friend or sibling's sensititivities into account in these sorts of situations, your brother can't have a veto over your decision.
That said, I would advise you not to do this unless 16 is the age of consent in your state (and I am not aware of a US state where it is).
My sisters friend was crushing on me before and my sister got mad at me even tho I didn't do anything. So Id advice against that, it also broke the friendship the two had 🤷
Also if you're 16 and he's 19 its weird. Nothing Id ever consider tbh, Id only date girls that are 18+, everything else looks creepy to others.
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No i don't think so. But you should start dating him only if you're really liking him. If you're just trying to mess around , just forget about it. That's too much unnecessary drama and you're involving your brother in your love life and giving him a chance to give a comment about it for nothing.
But i shoukd add that The only happily married couple i ever known was my uncle and his wife. He had married his best friends sister and they've been dating for a long time before marriage.