Most Helpful Girl
There are red flags
Being drugged and raped is not one of them that can happen to anyone
But these are the red flags :
Do u know if she was lying to you when she said she drugged and raped?
Why would she still talk to a guy that did that to her?
She doesn't wanna tell you about it?
She said you shouldn't worry about him if he supposedly did that then why shouldn't u worry what if he does it again?
Has she even called the police?
Has she got checked?
Why would she even go to a hotel with 3 other guys ( or supposedly ) ?
My advice is go know if she is telling the truth then I advise u to ask her to go get her checked out for being raped and drugged..
Spending on how long ago it was . they should be able to do it
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Most Helpful Guy
Unfortunately, some girls tell their current "good" boyfriends that they've been raped before when that didn't really happen. It happened to me with a past girlfriend. I was floored when she just out of the blue one evening told me she'd been raped. I wasn't sure how to respond. The next morning I phoned a very close friend of hers that I was always on the level with. I was still shocked that this girl I was in a relationship with had been raped. The friend basically said "Oh hell. She got drunk one night and went home with the guy and had sex with him. She wasn't raped." Some girls (I said "some") do this kind of thing as a way of getting attention. Others are ashamed that they shagged the guy and feel better about it if they can claim they were raped.