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I beleave the best option is to sit down with him and have a serious talk. Tell him exaktly what you just said, tell him that you are hyrting to see him feel the. Way he does, and if you come to it, tell him that it is okay to leave. Ask him what he whants, and if you truly whant him to feel happy, make him tell the truth so what his descicion is truly valid.
However, if he truly loves you he may be able to handle it. So talk to him.
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Are you sure he really wants out? I mean I’d be upset too if my significant other had health issues. When you say it bothers him and that he is unhappy about it… I mean duh… of course it doesn’t make him happy. Are you misreading his unhappiness with your health problems as his unhappiness with you?
That said, you are not wrong to offer him a way out. It’s a very selfless sentiment and you’ve got a big heart to offer that. It’s that “if you love someone, set them free” thing.
If I was him and you told me that, I’d love you all the more for it. In fact, I’d stop you from finishing your sentence as soon as I realized what you had in mind. My love is not conditional based on the health of my partner. I very much doubt that his is, either.
I wish you better health and the best of luck in love! :)