Most Helpful Guy
He doesn’t appreciate you at all
Most Helpful Girl
Has he shown other ways of caring? Like physical affection, doing practical things to help you (like helping you fix things, running errands when you can’t, etc).
Maybe some people have a different love language... I don’t know.
I get why it’d be upsetting though. :/ Maybe he’s totally clueless it’s upsetting. I hope.