Falling for your friends with benefits?

So I met this guy about a month after I broke up with my long term boyfriend, he had just come out of a similar situation, and we decided to be friends with benefits, long story short a month into this and I’ve started catching feelings, I don't know what to do cos I don’t want to loose him as a friend cos I do genuinely care about him, but I also don’t want him to know said feelings are there and for it to ruin the relationship. How do I stop the whole sex thing so I can be just his friend.


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  • To have a friend with benefits, your head has to be in the right place and not easily influenced by feelings. My friends with benefits have feelings for each other but it still doesn't change anything but you can be boyfriend and girlfriend without any serious commitment. Despite what people say it is really not that hard once you have the right mind-set.

  • Its simple. say i dont ferl like having sex with you anymore. if he stays as a friend then he reall cares about you.


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