Suggestions how to bring up on setting sexual boundaries with boyfriend?
What Guys Said 5
Oh sh1te, it's gonna be like this:
I’d just ask to talk to him about you guys sexually and say that you want to set boundaries between you guys
Can you answer my recent one please? It’s on my page0
Keep a loaded pistol on your person at all times. Sit back and watch him mind his matters.0
Tell him : no [insert name here] i won't do it on the kitchen counter!!
He'll probably give you sad puppy eyes but stay firm0
be straight and forthcoming..
What Girls Said 3
Tell him what you like and dont like, what you will do and what you will not do. and leave it at that0
That's tough because boundaries like those if they aren't discussed during the dating stage the relationship will have some defaults down the road and it may end up being him cheating or leaving but if he's a good guy he'll respect your wishes. To answer your question, there is no other way to bring up a topic but to bring it up because he's your boyfriend and having that discussion should be necessary when it has something to do with you feeling uncomfortable. Never compromise yourself to try and save a relationship because once you give a guy what he's looking for if sex and caressing is the only thing he's looking for than he'll leave in an instant, regardless.
Stand by your word and meant it. If he cannot respect your wishes than maybe everything happened for a reason so this can be a test if this guy actually loves you. I understand that people desire different things in a relationship but you're already in one with him if you understand where i am coming from. Goodluck.0
Just say, "hey, I need to set some sexual boundries with you."
Open communication is usually the most effective0
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