Most Helpful Guy
Do you have a well respected older adult near you. Ask for help from everyone till you find the person that can talk you through your situation. To us looking in w no attachments it’s an easy solution. But your living it. So it’s not so easy. Your emotionally attached. So find a professional shrink. And get real advice that can really help you. You will be fine. Everyone has been there for the most part. Realize that you are strong you are going to come into your own an most importantly. Your trying. That is where most people fail. So you are already ahead of many.
Smile 😃 you will find a path.
Most Helpful Girl
Ok, 1st things 1st, you are ruddy amazing. Now, as far as this fair weather friend is concerned, say goodbye. Fill your time with things that benefit you. If he attempts to come back in your life, shut it down. He no longer exists. You are not his plaything and he is not your responsibility. If you feel he may be in danger call an ambulance/5-0. It is not on you to be his safety net. Treat yourself better, love yourself more. What he is doing is a form of abuse. Look up something called "Power and Control Wheel." Let him go. It's easy if you want it!