So far the convos are still extremely sexually related and I don’t want to talk like that all the time and I don’t know how to slow it down.
how do I do this without hurting his feelings or making him feel rejected?
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Spend more time in person and text less. In person if a guy is getting sexual it’s easy to smile let him no you appreciate it maybe give him a quick peck or something but then redirect the attention elsewhere. Over the phone you can’t finesse a conversation like that. A great way to get a guy to be less sexual is to just get it out of the way. It’s the tension that’s driving it all.