Most Helpful Guy
Like being punched in the gut and simultaneously disemboweled. One of the worst feelings. A combination of feelings. Disgusted, angry, upset, sad, hurt, betrayed, hostile, enraged. Many many more. It was one of the most surreal feelings. Felt almost unreal when she told me.
There was a lot of anger. A lot. And while I may have restrained myself physically. I said some of the most fucked up things I've ever said to another person after that. I'm my rage I had done irreperable harm to our relationship. We could have stayed friends. We could have slowly faded apart. Could have ghosted her. Or just nicely let her know. Hey this isn't gonna work out. Shit who knows I could have even forgave her.. I may not have laid a finger on her, but after, he told me "I can take a hit dude, But words can be downright painful".
Whatever you do. And how ever you react. Don't do it in the moment. Wait a few days. And if you still can't be amicable.. just walk away. Trust me. That is the best way. Take it from a dickhead who went there.
Most Helpful Girl
I'd be pissed. Cheating is one of the worse things you can do to a person, I mean, it can so easily cause trust issues in the future. Anyways, pissed would turn into feeling completely disrespected, then ultimately sadness.