Most Helpful Guys
That's the problem right there young lady. Your comparing him and your relationship to what it used to be. Like the touch of his skin in the morning the words that were said the thoughts you were having as he move closer to you and whispers in your ear. The looks that he would give you the love you felt for him as he is making you breakfast or something really cute. DON't forget those things and live though those memories. You will not forget about him cause I have never forgot my first love its been over 10 years. But I am married not with a young baby life will happen and you will find a lover , just don't comparing his actions to what you were used to while you to were together , this new guy may act close to him but will never act the same way he did. You will find new things to love. in turn will be the same things you already do just differently now
You focus on yourself, becoming the person you want to be, improving yourself and dealing with the things you don't like about you.
You throw yourself into constructive hobbies, take a class or learn a new skill. Go hiking every weekend, learn Spanish or French.
I learned to juggle, started a regular workout routine, and blew the competition out of the water at work (I was a salesman, and became the most successful one on the floor after a few months).
I started trying to casually date, but in the end I actually ended up getting back together with my ex. I think it was the day I decided to start moving on that things began to turn around for us, actually.
Either way, you'll be glad you focused on something else and worked on being a better you.
Most Helpful Girls
I didn’t have to try, I just did. He’s married now and happy. I liked the guy, we didn’t work out, but I cared about him enough to be happy he found love and I love myself enough to know he’s not the only option out there for me.
You need to stop comparing others to him. He is your first love and he’ll always have that place in your heart. But you will only get over him if you stop comparing others to him and if you move on with someone else... i know it’s easier said than done, but as long as you’re single and he’s not, you can’t get over jim. You need to focus on yourself, get a hobby, go work out, do fun things with your friends/family and stop focussing on what he’s doing with who. Good luck babe.. i know it’s hard but you will move on and it will get better. Trust me xx