My boyfriend told me he had sex with 40 years old woman when he was in 24. Is that really as disgusting as it is for me or I am overreacting?

I had older partners too but for me when man is oder than a woman isn’t as ugly as woman is older from a man. It makes me sick thinking about him having sex with some older woman. 24 isn’t that young to say ohh well he was a stupid kid. Its really making me want to puke...

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  • Okay, assuming You are aware that this is kind of Your personal head-cinematic and therefore Your issue, not his fault, maybe consider that 40 can mean looks like grandma but can also mean looks just grown up and yet pretty. It's also not sooo uncommon for a younger man to be interested in someone who has more experience and fewer attitude based turn-offs. You might want to clarify what the problem is... is it an image in Your head, or is it the idea of a woman being older thus more likely to be somewhat dominant, or?

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    • Just the fact that he could get excited over a woman who was almost his mom age makes me sick.

  • When i was 17, i had sex with a 47yr old woman. A friend of my mothers, she was a widow, my mum asker me to give her some help she needed.
    Long story short, the sex was out of this world. This woman made it her business to get one man to see women as human beings first, how to appreciate women, how to try and understand women. How to treat a woman properly. This went on for two years, then she went to London to live with her sister. To this day i miss her.
    She kept herself very well, had a good body, there was nothing pukey or ugly about her at all.

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  • Sure. You're allowed your preference. I'd have reservations too since the woman is almost double his age. Of course, your dude has the right to do it with anyone who's legal and that he wants to since it was before he was for you. And having the preference JUST because it was an older woman is a bit of a shit reason.

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What Guys Said 8

  • You're overreacting badly here. It's not that big a deal.

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  • You're over reacting. A young man will do anybody that will let him. LOL
    How 'bout you?

    Oh, and it's a really big mistake to kiss and tell. Never do that. EVER. And this is why. There is nothing to gain and everything to lose. Keep your sexual escapades to yourself - no one really wants to hear about them, even if they beg.

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  • you are overreacting yes
    it shouldn't be ugly either way it is personal preference and therefore each to their own choices

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  • You're really overreacting. My first sex was when I was 13 with an 18 year old girl and it was wonderful. Down at my Aunt's lake house, a 57 year old man owned the local boat gas dock and he married the 15 year old girl he had been dating for two years. They could have gotten married in the next state at 14. The age of consent back then was either 12 or had just changed to 14. That was 60 years ago. People freak out now over young love. Back then, country folks were proud when their daughters married an older man with his own business.

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  • A total overreaction.

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  • You're over reacting

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  • I think it is not something to react about.
    He did it casually is what is the part where he issue lies

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  • You’re overreacting. I was w someone when I was 25 who happen to be 40 as well. I did it cause she was more mature, took care of me, wasn’t childish like a lot of you get women can be.

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What Girls Said 1

  • Well honestly it's his past. You can't do much about it. Either you can move on or break-up with him.

    You have to decide if your relationship is important or his past is

    If you ask me, as long as the woman wasn't married and it was consensual, there's no reason to be disgusted.

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