I don't know what to do about this guy, he's someone I admire a lot and I'm not sure if I should keep pursuing him or if he even still interested in me.
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I can see it from both sides. At least he is being honest. Many men feel pressured to commit to a relationship before marriage only to get dumped or cheated on YEARS later. From that perspective, committing before engagement is very foolish!
This isn't the social norm though. Most people expect a show of faith by being faithful before a true commitment of marriage is established. I say do the same. Keep him, but date others.