Now, he's acting cold after I politely declined. He's getting angry on me and behaving pretty rudely. So I've lost my friend but what haunts me is that, "Am I wrong? Will this declination have a consequence later on? What if people start hating me?"
Most Helpful Guys
No, you're not wrong. If you don't want to have a relationship with him and you were polite about declining, then I don't see what you did wrong.
If he's getting angry and gets rude, he's wrong. Not you, you shouldn't feel like you should be with him just because he can't handle rejection nor is he entitled
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You are not wrong. It's saddening to hear he is making you feel you were wrong by his childish reactions. Whatever is most important to you at the moment, feel free to pursue it, & hopefully this episode will be just a memory with little impact.
Most Helpful Girls
If he's behaving like that, he never had intention of staying just friends. In fact, he didn't even really want to be your friend. He always had agenda of dating you.
So would you want someone as friend who is 'friends' with you because he eventually wants to make you his gf? Or a friend who has no other motives?
You did nothing wrong. You were polite. He could gracefully accept it and move on. You don't have to feel guilty for this.