my standard personally changed because it’s awkward dating a guy that complains about money.
since I’m bad with money myself I want someone that can set an example from me that can help balance that out. I don't know my chances of getting with a guy from a wealthier back ground but that’s what I’ve honestly been looking at and everything else doesn’t really excite me anymore, I’ll be bored and in the back of my head I’ll always have that feeling of grass is greener on the other side kind of deal.
yet I’m not rich myself but at the same time I feel like with the right person that could change. Do you think that’s too high of a standard?
Most Helpful Guy
The best men to look for are the ambitious men, cause he wants to get rich. You don't want to date a man, who is just happy to coast through life.
Most of mum's sisters went out with ambitious men, they weren't rich when they were young, but they flaming rich now. they help each other along their journeys in life.
So if you want to get rich, its help to find a man who also wants to be rich, you can both help each other to successful.
Most Helpful Girl
So imagine guys would also set themselves the same standard, since in today's age women get paid just as much as them, if not more, depending on the job.
Do you think it's realistic to require such a thing?
Even tho money is important, it is not a partner's duty to provide for you. It still is in some communities but even tho that's present, that's the easiest way to control and manipulate you if you think about it.