Most Helpful Guys
-Moral values and decency. If you are a good human, i will never think badly of you.
-Being capable of staying calm and not freakin out, no matter what the situation. I have dumped most of my girlfriends for being too hysterical all the time.
-Discipline and will power. If you think losing weight or going to the gym once per week is "omg so hard and stressful" you are already a loser in my eyes.
Most Helpful Girls
~ If we have a similar moral code and similar values
~ If we agree enough on politics that it won’t cause any discord in our day-to-day lives
~ If we have similar goals and ideas about the future
~ If he’s still a virgin (only important to me rn because I’m still a virgin myself)
~ If he has the time and patience to deal with my neediness and provide the immense amount of attention I need
~ If I’m physically attracted to him
Probably a lot of other things too but that’s all I can think of off the top of my head
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Beyond deal breakers-ex) religion
I look at their temperament (are they a hot head), how they treat me (are they good to me or great to me), sexual compatibility (am I actually satisfied, does he leave me wanting more), their priorities (am I high on the list), and can be change for the better (I'm not out here trying to change a man but if he says he'll do something, he better do it or I'll think his word means nothing)