What matters to you when you decide to date someone/see a future with them?


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Most Helpful Guys

  • -Moral values and decency. If you are a good human, i will never think badly of you.
    -Being capable of staying calm and not freakin out, no matter what the situation. I have dumped most of my girlfriends for being too hysterical all the time.
    -Discipline and will power. If you think losing weight or going to the gym once per week is "omg so hard and stressful" you are already a loser in my eyes.

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  • -Similar philosophy on life
    -Some interests in common
    -Good character
    -Good personality
    -Similar views on childrearing
    -Stability in their life

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Beyond deal breakers-ex) religion
    I look at their temperament (are they a hot head), how they treat me (are they good to me or great to me), sexual compatibility (am I actually satisfied, does he leave me wanting more), their priorities (am I high on the list), and can be change for the better (I'm not out here trying to change a man but if he says he'll do something, he better do it or I'll think his word means nothing)

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  • ~ If we have a similar moral code and similar values
    ~ If we agree enough on politics that it won’t cause any discord in our day-to-day lives
    ~ If we have similar goals and ideas about the future
    ~ If he’s still a virgin (only important to me rn because I’m still a virgin myself)
    ~ If he has the time and patience to deal with my neediness and provide the immense amount of attention I need
    ~ If I’m physically attracted to him

    Probably a lot of other things too but that’s all I can think of off the top of my head

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    • Which ones do I fulfill

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    • I love you I won’t be a NEET

    • I will become a neurosurgeon to make you proud 😤😤😤

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What Guys Said 30

  • -No STDs
    -Didn't hit the wall
    -Not a cheater
    -No Children
    -Not Narcassitc
    -Not Dominative
    -Healthy
    - Improves her self
    -Pretty
    -Supportive
    -Friendly
    -Can handle her own problems
    -Empathy
    -All more good things :D

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  • Shared goals, similar outlook on life, patient, good sense of humour, ideally hot but I can work with pretty/cute as theyll just grow on me anyways.

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  • I want to know if they're stable, mature, and have goals. That helps me determine if I can see a future with them and that we value the same things.

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  • The female of the species is a must. Human specimen is important but not a deal breaker. Other than that I'm pretty easygoing.

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  • How well we understand each other and ofc somewhat same interests allthough the latter isn't necessarily a requirement if the former compansates

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  • Not entitled
    Not a feminist
    Not a slut
    Loves kids
    Caring
    Sweet

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  • are you a genuinely nice person, caring, appreciative of simple, meaningful things, do you not need a lot of money, are you a totally awesome person

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  • Mutual respect, deep caring for each other and understanding of each others mannerisms and say they think.

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  • Stable mind. I do find some like the drama I’m not perfect but apart from that it’s like reading a good book you have to want to see the next page.

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  • Physical attraction
    Compatible life goals
    The right ratio of alone time to shared hobbies and activities.
    Compatible philosophy/outlook

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  • Compatibility and love are the two big ones.
    The rest of things can be seen on the way.

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  • Honestly, I don't see a future with anyone. I used to be so starry-eyed. I was so stupid.

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  • Big tits
    Fat ass
    Pretty face
    Wife material personality

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  • That they be mentally sound. I've had it with borderlines.

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  • Physical attraction, mental attraction and attitude

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  • A couple of same intrests
    Good personality
    Same hobbies

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  • Nothing I don't see a future with anyone on this planet anymore

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  • Don't cheat on me don't lie to me and don't hurt me

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  • What would matter to me is that I had found the one I want to be with forever..

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  • Breathing.

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  • Personality, goals in life, not a party hoe

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  • How well they handle sarcasm.

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  • feeling myself comfortable and happy with her,

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  • In what way?

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  • Is it possible🤔🤔🤔

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  • That we like each other tbh

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  • Loyalty and understanding

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  • How their personality meshes with mine

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  • How is that meant?

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  • Body count...

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What Girls Said 13

  • That he can be trusted to be faithful and has the capacity to improve or does not need to improve.

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  • Have good hygiene.
    Wants kids.
    Funny.
    Respectful but sarcastic.
    Should be able to handle jokes from my family because they can be ruthless.
    Someone who doesn't need a second mom.

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  • Loyalty, respect, trust, truthfulness, friendship, personality, chemistry, connection, mutual values

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  • That he treats me right and tells me how much he loves me
    Shared interests
    Not a corporate worker
    Kinky
    Appreciates cuddles

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    • i love all those reasons but i am curious to know why not a corporate worker? lmfao xD

    • They sell their souls and only care about work usually, or hate their job and are miserable and stressed 24/7

    • kind of like the tv show Mad Men? i am watching that rn and its such an awesome show! lol but anyways that makes more sense now why you dont want him to be a corporate worker for me personally i believe its all about balance i wouldn't want to live just for work. Life is meant to be enjoyed!!

  • I have some Standards like no Smoking, just occassionly drinking, friendly, smart, funny and loyal. If he meets them it is all good

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  • Personality - moral value
    Common interest
    Intelligent
    Attitude
    - Appearance

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  • Emotional intelligence is very important to me; silliness, spirituality, self awareness and mutual attraction to each other

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  • I like him n interested to love him. That's enough reason.

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  • That you get along very well, that is my main part.

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  • he's financially stable, isn't a hoe, treats me great

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  • Personality

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  • I want love caring friendship and kindness.

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  • If he is committed

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